Questions to Ask on a Chat Line

For budding chat line couples the energy can be very electric, causing things to move at an alarmingly fast pace. We understand and don’t want to hinder or dispel those amazing butterflies you feel every time you hear that person’s voice. However, love and relationships (especially ones that started over the phone) are very complicated and must be handled with care. There are things you need to know about your partner and important questions that you must ask. Why? Because if you don’t ask these questions, you run the risk of having problems down the road. You’ll want to make sure, before entering a super serious relationship, that your partner hits all of your marks and that there are no unwanted surprises down the road. In this article, you’ll find suggestions on the questions you should ask on a chat line. Of course, every couple and person is unique and there might be things that you care about asking and things that you really don’t. Take these suggestions and decide for yourself what are dealbreakers for you and your relationship! (Tip: if you’ve never tried a chat line before, check out a chat line expert first).

What are we?

This seems obvious but you’d be surprised at how many people forget to ask their partners on the status of their relationship. Sometimes, things can feel a lot more serious for one person than they are for another. How can this be? It happens when an overly romantic person connects with a person who is a good flirt or likes to lead people on. When you’re ready, you’re going to want to ask your match this question to make sure that you are on the same page and headed into the relationship at the same pace! You want a partner-in-crime or second-half, you don’t want to find yourself chasing after someone who will never be ready to give you the same amount of affection that you’re able to give.

What’s your take on religion/politics?

While we’re often taught that these two topics of conversation are never to be brought up in a social situation, it’s something you’re going to want to talk to a romantic partner about. You don’t necessarily have to agree on everything (although a great deal of agreement would be helpful), but you will want to know if your match has any deal-breakers within the two categories that perhaps you break. Or, conversely, you might have some bottom-lines when it comes to religion and politics that you’ll want to know about sooner rather than later.

What do you see in your future?

You are going to want to find out where your partner is headed if you plan on being a part of his/her journey! This journey might have to do with a career, children, marriage, or living arrangements. We understand that for some people, these questions can feel a bit hasty. You don’t need to find out everything! While we think that the more you know the better it will be, you can simply ask someone where they believe they are headed. The question is less about getting a definitive answer and more about understanding what your partner wants in his/her life, and if it coincides with your own dreams.

Any dark secrets of their past?

When falling for someone, it can be easy to ignore his/her faults. It might also be easy to ignore that your match has any faults at all! We don’t expect you to ask your partner to tell you all of his/her secrets, but if he/she is hiding something huge you’ll want to know. What do we mean by huge? Anything potentially negative or life-altering such as spending time in prison or having an affair. Learning that your partner has a dark past doesn’t mean that you should end the relationship; however, it will help you understand your partner more and know what to be cautious of in the future.

These questions are heavy and super serious whether they’re asked on a chat line or in person. So if you don’t think you’re ready, don’t ask them yet! Save it for a later date. Just be aware that serious relationships will likely require that both parties know the answers to these questions as they move forward together into the future. Great relationships are founded on open, honest conversation. What all of these questions have in common is that they are all approached in one way or another by couples when they begin to get really serious. Knowing the answers will help to avoid arguments, bad surprises, or frustrations that may arise within your relationship.

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