How to Be the Best Version of Yourself at Any Age

One of the most important relationships in our lives is the one we have with ourselves and our bodies. It’s very much like having a life partner – you should be able to rely on them, but you should also treat them with love and respect. We only get one life and one body, and if we take good care of them, we can look forward to a lifetime of health, happiness, and fulfillment.

While making the necessary changes does take effort, once we take that first step towards becoming the best version of ourselves, we can invite more positivity into our lives. Here’s what you can do to ensure you’re being your best self – at any age.

Adopt a positive attitude towards yourself

In an era dominated by the beauty standards set by the media, it can become increasingly difficult to love yourself for who you truly are. Feeling like you’re not good enough and need to change can put you in a negative mental place, but it’s important to shed this negativity and think in a more positive manner. Choose to be happy – smile more often because even a fake smile can trick your brain into happiness. Write a list of strengths and weaknesses and accept them, focusing on what’s positive. And as difficult as it may seem, avoid being judgmental and critical as these attitudes only breed more negativity. Valuing yourself is key to developing healthy self-esteem, so believe in yourself and the fact that other people appreciate you and care about you.

Do what makes you feel good about your body

Our bodies are powerful mechanisms. They can self-heal, they can change, and they can give life, and just a single thought is enough to have our bodies moving and performing tasks the way we want them to. Our bodies are capable of so many different things and what you need to do is figure out what you enjoy best. Think about the ways you like to move your body and how that affects your mood, attitude, and self-esteem. Whether it is dancing, swimming, running, gardening, or yoga, find the activities that you enjoy doing and that make your body feel good. You’re guaranteed to feel and look good as well.

Nourish your body with necessary nutrients

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Part of feeling good about yourself is treating your body with love and respect it deserves, starting with providing proper nourishment. As years go by, your nutritional needs may change, but sticking with a healthy diet that gives your body all the vitamins and minerals it needs is essential. This is especially important for women who are going through menopause. This is a period when your body is going through quite a few changes, and taking the necessary nutrients while also relying on menopausal supplements can help the body while also supporting your overall health during this period. Regardless of your stage in life, adopting healthy eating habits is crucial if you want to look good and feel good. Skip dieting and calorie counting, because there’s really this one rule – if it’s nourishing and makes you feel good afterward, go for it.

Wear what makes you feel confident

What you wear can definitely change your perspective and the way you feel about yourself. Try wearing a top that doesn’t really fit or a color that doesn’t go with your skin tone and see how that affects your confidence. Chances are you won’t feel that great and won’t like what you see in the mirror. While there are no strict rules when it comes to dressing, you want to stick with pieces that fit you well and accentuate your best features. Whether it’s a dress that emphasizes your long legs or jeans that draw attention to your waist, when you’re wearing something that makes you feel confident, it’ll definitely show.

Pamper yourself from time to time

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Regardless of how busy your schedule may be, it’s important that you find some time in a day just for yourself. This should be the time when you can relax and unwind from daily stresses and do something that says “I’m worthy of time and attention”. Whether it means spending a day at the spa or heading to a salon for a manicure or a facial, remember to pamper yourself from time to time. You can always paint your nails or relax in a tub with a face mask on and some vegan body wash for a relaxing at-home pampering session.


The journey to happiness begins with small steps we can take on a daily basis to improve the relationship we have with ourselves. Use the tips above to start making progress today so that you can set the stage for a lifetime of blissfulness and fulfillment.

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