3 Ways To Help Your Relationship

Having a better sex life doesn’t mean you need to have endless sex or try all sorts of kinky positions; it’s actually quite easy to enhance it and it doesn’t really take a lot of effort. Sex shouldn’t be full of pressure to perform or climax, and instead it should be focused on exploring your bodies and enjoying lots of different sensations.

To bring back a fulfilling, intimate sex life with your partner, there are some simple methods you can try out in the bedroom. Especially when life starts to get in the way, you may find that you and your partner are just too tired or think that the spark you once had has dimmed a little, but you don’t have to let it die completely! Here are 3 ways you can reignite your passion and begin to enjoy each other’s bodies once again.

1. Try something new

As with anything, if your sex life becomes repetitive and monotonous, you can easily fall into a slump and feel bored. You don’t need to be the kinkiest couple in bed to try out new things, so have a loo into using toys and spend some time together either in a store or looking online at all the new toys on the market. If you’re not feeling 100% confident, you could try something as simple as a blindfold, or if you’re looking to be more adventurous, give fetish sex toys a go. You can talk about what you’d each like to try in the bedroom and bring the spark back, strengthening your intimacy and exploring new pleasures.

2. Start the conversation

Even in long term relationships, there is always new topics to discuss. Some people don’t like to talk about sex but speaking openly with your partner will really enhance your time together and make it clear what you like or if you have certain fantasies you want to explore. It is just as good to communicate during the act itself, as you want your partner to know what they’re doing is good or if they need to do something slightly different, letting them know if something isn’t working or if you want them to do something else to maximise the sensations.

3. Make time for each other

More often than not, spontaneous sex is the best kind. Although this is often the case, knowing when and where it’s going to happen can really help build up the anticipation for it if you both find that neither of you have any time. Set one time a week where you only spend time together and focus on each other’s bodies, building up the excitement and making you anticipate sex with each other once again. It can be fun to ban yourselves from touching each other sexually before this allotted time too, trying to stop yourselves from going any further and waiting until your agreed time and date to tease each other to the max. Restricting yourselves from each other will only make you want it more so that when the time comes, you won’t be able to keep your hands off each other.

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